Fame and Attention ,is what we all love to have in our life.
(another basic instinct of brain, I feel)
|NOTHING IS MORE JOYOUS THAN THE FEELING OF ,PERFORMING ON YOUR OWN TERMS#personalspaceforsensitivesoul|
Not only it gives us psychological happiness but also helps in getting more advantages in professional career and getting more materialistic wealth from which we can fulfill our desires and hobbies easily and feel superior to others and can live fulfilled ( Life of abundance ) life.
Old definitions of fulfilled life is not working anymore in present time of really explosive use of social media . Here you can be hero on one day and other day people will judge you as villain .
Based on peoples verdict ,one day you will feel you are messiah(saviour) and other day ,you will be victim /survivor.
Old ways of aspirations of happiness is not working anymore ,as people used to follow all rich people ,and aspire and work hard to be one (As now we knew how corrupt most of them ).
And this question arises again and again ,so what is the purpose (meaning ) of life and more you read different books and blogs ,you get different answers all the time.
We try hard to full fill our empty life with providing meaning in different ways ,sometime by our profession , sometime by being helpful to someone , sometime by trying to be rich and creating imaginary (FANTASIES) experiences of future.
All this things work for short time duration and then you have to start again by providing new meanings to it. And this feeling of helplessness is not leaving us .
BUT does that mean life is meaningless ? well NO, if you are having great time, everything is working in your favor .When everyday is super comfortable and no pressure on you to do handle .
We all live in a world of possibilities where everything changes constantly, so does our mind.
Fulfilment of one desire gives space to another one and this fire of desire is not allowing us to settle or relax at anytime. We always try hard to being relevant or significant to the world..
We have this fear of being invalidated if we will not behave according to social scenario, we always try hard to maintain our identity (continuity ) based on peoples perception .
Fear of losing respect or favor from our friends or loved ones ,never allow us to behave according to our mood.
AND then one day this inherent individualistic nature of ours take revenge and we suffer from various illnesses and here we realize that , what we have learnt from various religious scriptures or books is BULLSHIT.
HERE we learn in painful ways that we need to draw the line between being original to our self and being martyr of social expectations#personalspaceforsensitivesoul
|TO SAVE YOURSELF FROM LIVING REGRETFUL LIFE, DRAW THAT LINE ASAP.|
Do what you like /love ,If it changes everyday then also don't try to explain yourself to others .
INSTINCT OF BEING ACCEPTED BY ALL IS THE ROOT CAUSE OF MISERY.#personal space for sensitive soul