|WE DON'T HAVE THIS KIND OF PHOTOS,BUT WE SHARE SUCH EMOTIONS|
I know you are going through tough phase where balance of work-social life-personal care has been disrupted due to too much responsibilities on your young shoulders after marriage .
Many times you have to behave according to other people's (in laws ) wish,which is not your natural style. You have to wear clothes which is not your choice and which doesn't suit your personality.
We both know that in our INDIAN culture ,we have to work really hard to please everyone ,not only in our family but other far far relatives too.In an attempt to not to hurt anyone , You have taken many blows on your mind.
Being your elder brother and sensitive individual,I also don't like many our old rituals and formality centered behaviour. I know our society give more space to boys to express their emotions then girls, which I personally don't like and I always try on my part to bring this change ,wherever I can.
|Unfortunately,INDIA is the biggest loser ,in providing enough opportunity to women till now|
But my lovely younger sister ,Rule of change is that we need to bring change within ourself first before bringing it outside.
I always want to see you happy and healthy ,because your unhappiness makes me uncomfortable and inability to interfere in your social life due to fear of consequences on our parent's life make me feel helpless many times.
Today I want to tell you that, you have to give birth to COURAGE in your being ,because our creator (GOD) has given this ability to give birth to life ,only to girls, then how can you be so weak , not to bring this change in your life on your own?
Nature/God's most sensitive and caring yet highly vulnerable creation is woman , but the same sensitivity which is capable for nurturing life ,when needed can be transformed into strength of goddess KALI.
"DON'T LET YOUR SENSITIVITY TO BE PERCEIVED AS YOUR WEAKNESS." #mypersonalspaceforsensitivesoul
|ENOUGH OF SOCIAL OBLIGATION,LIVE CAREFREE BY REACHING TO THE TOP|
Time has come in our world when every girl needs to realize that,they are complete without any life partner.
"DON'T LET YOUR HAPPINESS/HEALTH BE DEPENDENT ON OTHER GENDER"
Do you remember, Me and You both have experienced hostel life,where we learned to take total care and responsibilities of our self when our parents were not there to protect us or take care of us.
We both have been gifted by caring and helpful parents and financial Problems throughout our life ,which we took as challenge and always worked hard to overcome them.
We believed in meritocracy and never took shortcut in our life and achieved everything on our own (skill/talent ).
Time has come ,where life has given us enough experiences to face any challenges and now its up to us how we can shape our life.
Don't be like every other INDIAN GIRL, WHO happily remain victim throughout her life and be jealous of other successful woman. NO...YOU NEED TO FIGHT ...
Don't you know life story of these women,who made big impact on whole world,make them your idols,read their biography ,about how they overcame tough phase and became inspirations for many.
|THESE ALL ARE WOW WOMEN..YOU ALSO HAVE SAME ZEAL WHICH CAN MAKE YOU WOW..|
Do you know only Indian players to won Olympic medals in badminton ,both are girls.(Saina Nehwal, P.V.Sindhu)
Saying all this thing , you need to remember , Personal growth will happen only when you will take ACTIONS(DECISIONS).
|DECISION SHAPE OUR DESTINY ,TAKE ONE OF IT NOW|
Start Your JOURNEY with one decision ,that you are not going to succumb to any situations ,
followed by improve your personality with DEEP KNOWLEDGE and GREAT COMMUNICATION SKILLS.
|DEEP KNOWLEDGE WILL EARN YOU RESPECT AND LOT OF POWER|
|ALL THE PROMINENT PERSONALITIES OF WORLD HAVE THIS SKILL,CHECK YOURSELF|
Good news is ,you can learn all this skill ,because you have done this in past ,its time to Expand your Horizon and Imagine yourself as A Strong individual for that,
1.START READING BOOKS (start with WHO MOVED MY CHEESE?)
2.EDUCATE YOURSELF WITH NEW SKILLS (sharpen your teaching skill)
3.LEARN COMMUNICATION SKILLS (MOST IMP) (Internet has many videos on same topic)
4.Exercise daily (Fit people have more advantage)
|THIS IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSLF|
Have you Observed ,Its just because of lack of last skill ,you are not able to express your Emotions .
STOP WATCHING TELEVISION FOR ENTERTAINMENT ,TIME TO BE REALISTIC .
I know you watch many daily sop of BALAJI telefilms,which is not at all reality ,but it also drains you of your vital energy.
I know you hate many females ,who are not of good nature,but did you pay enough attention, why they are doing that thing ,not because they love to be vamp,but because they never got chance to get enough education (like our parents) or they wasted opportunities after they got secured in life.
If you won't take actions/decision now, one day you will become like them.
|ONE SENTENCE WHICH IS TIMELESS ..ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS.|
There is no GOD other than life .MAKE SURE YOU EXPERIENCE IT TO HIGHEST LEVEL.
|YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN FREEDOM TO CHOOSE YOUR LIFE,CHOOSE BRAVELY.|
Why I am telling you all these things , because I know YOU well,You have many dreams which you want
to fulfill , but due to fear of society (what people will think ) leads to paralysis of action , addiction
to comfort zone (security ) leads to PROCRASTINATION and so called obligations to family
and friends (leads to mediocrity) is preventing you ,which you are not ready to accept .
TO LIVE LIFE WITHOUT REGRET ,IMMEDIATELY FOLLOW THIS
START TODAY,take that first step towards GOLDEN future for being FINANCIALLY AND SPIRITUALLY INDEPENDENT human .
TAKE ONE STEP AT A TIME. DON'T THINK MUCH ,JUST FOLLOW WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS ,BECAUSE IT ALREADY KNOWS WHERE TO LEAD YOU .
|DEEPER TRUTH OF LIFE|
AND YES, LAST BUT VERY IMPORTANT
DON'T TRY TO SEE WHOLE PICTURE ,IT WILL BECOME CLEAR ON ITS OWN TIME, YOU START ENJOYING JOURNEY OF NEW LIFE FROM HENCE ON WARDS ..
|"IT'S TIME TO WAKE UP , WORLD CELEBRATES VICTORIOUS , NOT VICTIMS."|
WHO WANTS TO SEE YOU AS A BRAVE AND INSPIRATIONAL PERSON. #mypersonalspaceforsensitivesoul